so let me be just that
who i am.
so often i see people who are in relationships fighting to be heard, seen, or understood by their significant other ... or as i like to say "proving that they are who they are" if someone shows you who they are believe them the 1st time, not just if its bad believe them when they're good too. because if the good is consistent then TRUST ME when i say ... they are being who they are. so often we find ourselves faced with negative that when positive come our way instead of taking a sigh of relief and embracing it. we opt to be skeptical, weary, unsure, doubtful, conscious, and afraid.
so i dare you. try it. the next time someone shows you who they are. and its a positive. BELIEVE THEM. see the glass as half full. try something new. it just might be the break from reality you've been looking for ...
Have the confidence of a slut, the attitude of a player, and the personality of a gentlemen.
Sluts.
There’s one thing about being a true slut that people need to learn from them.
Usually they have the best confidence around.
They do what they want, and people are aware, and still do it.
They accepted who they are, and truly don’t give two shits about what other people say or think.
Have the confidence of a slut.
Players.
We all know that being a player, is viewed as a minus in our society,
but they maintain one trait that is needed to survive in life.
Their attitude.
They know what they’re doing, and at their best they control every situation they create.
If a bitch walks out on a player, the player will just say “on to the next one.”
That’s what people need to do, don’t let one thing hold you back, you should be on top of your shit.
Have the attitude of a player.
Gentlemen.
Women love gentlemen, because they simply know how to do everything right,
mainly all the little things that regular people have such a hard time doing for some reason.
They have manners, they treat people with respect, even if those people are strangers.
They’re polite, and they know how to tolerate people’s bullshit.
Every woman, and man should have the personality of a gentleman.
Just doing all of this will make you a generally good person.
Have the personality of a gentleman.
so again i say....
Have the confidence of a slut, the attitude of a player, and the personality of a gentlemen.
Ive come to notice that sometimes the hardest thing people EVER do in their whole life is love ... which is sad considering its the most easy & basic emotion and feeling that we can know, feel, express, see, or recognize. Deepak Chopra said, "love is considered the most basic emotion that human awareness can feel; therefore, it is the closest to the source of life." so wouldnt that mean without love you can not live.?? just a thought ...
"Love is considered the most basic emotion that human awareness can feel; therefore, it is the closest to the source of life."
-Deepak Chopra in Ageless Body, Timeless Mind
well there you have it ladies & gentleman the moment you've all been waiting for ... the day that i would meet Mr. Tremaine Neverson, better known as Trey Songz ... i cant tell you the place, but just know it happend on May 4, 2010 ... & i have very greatful to the person that made it happen... some people call it "luck" i say its a blessing ... =)
"recently ive had to pull myself out of a few situations. friendships, and relationships... not for any other reason except that it wasnt healthy for me ... thats all, no hard feelings, no tears on my pillows, & no dirty looks in the club."
"You a model. Stop fuckin' playin"when paired with a model who couldnt get the job done for the photoshoot paired with the interview. But who can blaim her ... EXCUSE ME MR. NEVERSON.. HAVE YOU LOOKED IN A MIRROR LATELY.?! geez... For more on the interview, and more steamy hot pictures of Trey Songz visit your local book store & pick up your copy today.! (yes i have 2.!)
"a dog will shit in front of everyone and not give a damn as to who is watching. but cat.? have you ever seen a cat shit.? no just like a woman yall do the same stuff you just dont get caught."
"at this point its going to be hard for you to find someone to date that DOESNT have a child (or 2)"and unfortunately shes right.! now dont get me wrong i LOVE LOVE LOVE children and everything about them, im excited for my turn too be a mother.(in due time..) thats nnot where my hesitation in dating someone with a child comes, its not the children that turn me away, its the baby mamas...
" he better not have ANYONE around MY child"
"well if he dont want to be with me then im gonna make sure he cant be with anyone else, im going to make his & her life a living hell"
see my issue.?? and although these are my friends who say this and id never find myself in a situation where id be dating the father of their children, i know that my friends arent the only females that have these "make him as unhappy as he made me" intentions... but as i sat and mulled over what my mother said the longer i thought the more i began to realize how TRUE it was. and the more truth i felt in it, all i could hear screaming in my head was the word
"its not when people are watching do you need to be on your best behavior, its when you think nobody is looking that matters most"
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure; It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous.?
If I were a month, I’d be October.
If I were a day of the week, I’d be Sunday.
If I were a time of day, I’d be midnight.
If I were a planet, I’d be Saturn.
If I were a animal, I’d be a chipmunk.
If I were a direction, I’d be north.
If I were a piece of furniture, I’d be a chair.
If I were a liquid, I’d be Merlot.
If I were a gemstone, I’d be a diamond.
If I were a tree, I’d be a palm tree.
If I were a tool, I’d be a screwdriver.
If I were a flower, I’d be a sun flower.
If I were a kind of weather, I’d be a warm sunny day.
If I were a musical instrument, I’d be a violin.
If I were a color, I’d be magenta.
If I were an emotion, I’d be Love.
If I were a fruit, I’d be a pineapple.
If I were a sound, I’d be a giggle.
If I were an element, I’d be water.
If I were a car, I’d be a coupe.
If I were a food, I’d be good.
If I were a place, I’d be Vegas.
If I were a material, I’d be silk.
If I were a taste, I’d be sweet.
If I were a scent, I’d be amber.
If I were an object, I’d be a paper heart.
If I were a body part, I’d be an eye.
If I were a facial expression, I’d be a smile.
If I were a song, I’d be your favorite one.
If I were a pair of shoes, I’d be 4in high.
okay so ive decided this is how this is gonna work: God is going to speak, & youre going to listen, then God is going to lead you to me, God will speak again, & i then will listen too, then im going to follow you, bcuz i know you're following God &. i don't question my faith ...
THERES NO POINT IN STATING THE OBVIOUS ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU CAN OBVIOUSLY SEE THE CHANGE ... =) BUT EITHER WAY ... I CHANGED THE COLORS ... SPRING IS KIND OF NEAR SO I DECIDED TO BRIGHTEN THINGS UP A LITTLE BIT ... WHAT DO YOU THINK.??
"It's never okay for a man to hit a woman but its [also] never okay for a woman to hit a man. I think domestic violence is just not men on women"
NEVER HAVE I EVER bought a JET magazine but while shopping for things for my trip i looked to my right and saw this cover and IMMEDIATELY had to not only pick it up but also buy it.!!
(see blog: Underground Sound) concert & fresh snow ... And to my surprise i knew who he was without knowing who he was ... i mean ive had his music in my itunes for some time now and didn't even know it...
