Who Loves The Black Woman ...

Recently I have chosen to read Rajen Persaud's 'Why Black Men Love White Woman' ... & i must say it has not only been an interesting read, but it as provided me with an insight, understanding, and realization like no other. Upon finishing the Introduction and the 1st chapter, i proposed myself with a question. A question that was in the front of my head through out the 1st 30 pages ....

"Who loves the black woman.?"

And the only answer i can seem to come up with is NO ONE.! Now i know some of you are thinking "that's not true." and some of the male readers are saying "i love me some black women." But my question to you is

"Do you really.?"

i mean think about it since 1676 the black woman as been reguared simply as a piece of ass, that her master could violate not only her and her body without warning. But invade the homes of potential families, dishonor the black male and their role as "head of house hold", & pollute the minds of the children leaving everyone feeling violated, abused, and worthless. More so the woman than anyone else. In turn it has caused animosity between black women & white women, caused a desire in black men to want white women, not necessarily because he's attracted to her but because she hasn't been touch (raped), but it also has placed white men on a platform that exemplifies just exactly how they can get any and every thing they want, and we (everyone else) let them.

i will be providing more insight as i continue through this book ... i just wanted to give you something to think about ...

Diary -- Wale

love is...

easy - we just make it hard

nice- we just make it cruel

selfless - we just make it stingy

truth- we just give it lies

powerful- we just make it weak

intimate- we just make it superficial

light- we just make it dark

considerate- we just make it careless

passionate- we just make it dull

warm- we just make it cold

a feeling- we just made it a word

but most of all love is...

UNCONDITIONAL...

we just gave it "rules" ...

so take this time to feel free to love whom ever and whatever you like.

its YOUR love do with it how ever you so please .

"Love is considered the most basic emotion that human awareness can feel; therefore, it is the closest to the source of life."

-Deepak Chopra in Ageless Body, Timeless Mind

My Trey Day

well there you have it ladies & gentleman the moment you've all been waiting for ... the day that i would meet Mr. Tremaine Neverson, better known as Trey Songz ... i cant tell you the place, but just know it happend on May 4, 2010 ... & i have very greatful to the person that made it happen... some people call it "luck" i say its a blessing ... =)

so you know im nosey right.????

AND NOW I HAVE A TUMBLR TOO...

WHY.???

EASY...

BECAUSE IM NOSEY DUHHH.!!

okay truth be told, i just wanted to see what all the fuss was about, and when i asked nobody answered me ... so i had to find out on my own .... i doubt ill be using it as much as i use this ...

OR WILL I.???

either way the address is....

schaelove.tumblr.com

lol but who didnt see that one coming right.???

that is all...

"recently ive had to pull myself out of a few situations. friendships, and relationships... not for any other reason except that it wasnt healthy for me ... thats all, no hard feelings, no tears on my pillows, & no dirty looks in the club."