Find Yourself Before You Lose Her

Men tend to bite of more than they are willing to chew or swallow ... These ridiculious standars have been placed on what they want their "wifey" to be like and what she has to look like and what (or who) can't be in her past ... What she has to be able to cook ... not realizing while placing all these wants out there they aren't offering anything to make us say "Yes i want to do all these things for you.!" ... All the while we know what your past entails ... Yet you don't see us not wanting to date you bcuz you can't cook or bcuz the reason you &. your ex broke up is bcuz you cheated ... And you MOST DEFINITELY don't see us counting you out bcuz you were a well know MAN WHORE in high school ... Its obvious that while guys want to have a "woman" in their life they have these young fantisies of what their woman is supposed to be like ... Disreguarding the fact that they are human just like us ladies and have made the same if not larger mistakes in their past &. counting us out of the race is only going to make things harder for you ... you can't expect to want her to be perfect if you're only gonna come half ass ... Bcuz we WILL take that into consideration and when the time is right acknowledge it, and start counting you out just as well ... So before you start making all these crazy demands make sure everything you're supposed to be as a man is taken care of ...